Words are inadequate

even if a lot of my posts weren't more personal than suits prog's sense of privacy*, I post significantly more often, here, and on shared mailing lists.

people try to make these judgements by overvaluing in-person time, but online time counts as bonding and building too.

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*I am discretion-phobic in some ways, since it tends to wrongly direct the shame, and shame causes people to not tell you're usually better off knowing.