"and add some extra, just for you"

Bear is awesome. That link is likely not safe for work, at least not if you're prone to any sort of empathy. Really, it's not safe for reading alone. It's good stuff, though. One of the commenters linked to Philip Larkin's This Be The Verse, which starts out "They fuck you up, your mum and dad / They may not mean to, but they do."

( rambling cut to spare you )